Guest written by Colin Bedell (aka @queercosmos). Colin is a gay Gemini Twin from the South Shore of Long Island, New York. He is reverenced by astrology’s ability to bestow clarity and peace to people’s hearts. 

The dawn is coming! After Scorpio Season collected the circumstances of very complex, meaningful, Truth(es), the Sun enters Sagittarius on November 21st at 3:39pm EDT and stays there until December 21st. In short, Sagittarius Season asks us to honor the circumstances AND live from the vision. 
Sagittarius, as the mutable fire sign and ruled by faithful Jupiter, wants us to apply our learnings, education, and wisdom to the circumstances of life that need to be changed. Like all mutable signs, Sagittarius teaches us to move onward. So first, let’s acknowledge that change is hard, vulnerable, complicated, and messy. This is why faith-based – and I’m not talking religious dogma or doctrine – perception that can proactively believe in, salute, or invoke different outcomes is so important, because “blessed are those who have faith who cannot see.” 
And if faith-based is tricky and/or new to you, think about the key learnings of your life over the last year. I’m sure you’ve come to understand different ways of thinking, being, feeling, and living from the lived experiences of COVID19, racial equity, and the political results. You know better, so now Sagittarius Season wants you to do better. 
If you’ve thought about enrolling in an online program, attending a Zoom panel, re-reading your favorite books, internalizing the reflections of your favorite podcasts, or expanding your intellectual horizons through pandemic-friendly traveling, Sagittarius Season is the zodiac season to do it. Now what’s this got to do with change?

Our outer world changes when our vision changes. Our vision changes through education and faith. When we have a change of heart and mind, our conversations change. The way we look upon, see, hear, and speak to ourselves and others becomes different. And if you know what changes a heart, you know what changes a world. Sagittarius Season is the month that points the way to the new horizons we’re meant to explore. 

Like we’ve discussed before in our time together, Astrology aficionados are aware that we are not just our sun sign. We all have our individualized Astrological story written from our birth date, time, and location and it holds the specificities of ascendant, planets, houses, aspects, and more. 

Our Natal Chart and all it possesses tells a story of what’s possible for each of us in this lifetime. Of the twelve houses in the chart, the one Sagittarius Season wants us to connect to others across contrast is number nine. I outlined the Sagittarius house rulers of the zodiac here for you to live from in order to take Scorpio’s circumstances and bring them to Sagittarius vision.
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Lead with optimism, Aries. With “half-full” sighted Sagittarius as the ruler of your ninth house, you want to live from generous assumptions about the intent of others. And lead with the hypothesis of kindness that almost everyone’s doing the best they can with the tools they have. Interestingly, the life that will change from that perception change the most is yours because you’ll find proof!

What could change with radical responsibility, Taurus? Disciplined Capricorn rules your ninth house and wants you to transform your life by taking 100% responsibility for all the circumstances in it – from relationships as a feedback loop to the small part you play in whatever you’re not happy with. From that foundation, the changes will be swift, powerful, and will give you the results you want.  


Off the beaten path is your fav, Gemini! Brilliant Aquarius rules your ninth house, so vision change comes from you disrupting status-quo, trying new alternatives, and applying humanitarian principles to conversations centered on economic ones. You’ll feel lonely at times as you stand apart but you’ll feel more power within because you’re staying true to yourself, and your convictions and principles. 


The path of the heart is yours, Cancer. Soulful Pisces rules your ninth house, so you’ll want to study universal spiritual themes – compassion, grace, forgiveness, etc.,  – and bravely apply them. From there you’ll be amazed at how heart-lead intelligence transforms the quality of your life. Also, check in with your feelings for a mindful “head + heart” method which gives your perception high accuracy. 


It’s all in your desires, Leo! With passionate Aries ruling your ninth house, a simple fill in the blank freehand exercise – “I want (insert desire here!)” will direct you to the circumstances, situations, events, and places that will generate new outcomes. Your wantings, desires, and longings give you clues. Follow them bravely – even though it’s vulnerable – for wholehearted experiences. 


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What values inform your vision, Virgo? Safety loving Taurus rules your ninth house. It’s paradoxical, but think about the values which inform your desires for stability and change. We can always count on both! If you know what needs to be preserved and what needs to be progressed, you’ll have an impeccable vision that is needed today in order to help people find their way back to each other.  


You learn in dialogue, not monologue Libra! With the Gemini twins ruling your ninth house, your vision and life changes through active-listening and meaningful dialogue with folks whose perceptions are different and similar to yours. You know the delicate balancing act better than anyone else. So demonstrate that the most effectively in your chats and then apply it to your life!   


History’s instructive, Scorpio! With ancestral loving Cancer as the ruler of your ninth house, there’s an invitation to go back in time and understand the histories and stories of your family in order to be who you want to be in the present moment. Talk to your living ancestors and try meditations with the ones who’ve crossed on for an education on what vision is asked of you at this moment. 


Happy Birthday, Sag! Courageous Leo rules your ninth house of vision, so see yourself as worthy – completely and authentically – to give vision and voice towards the circumstances that need to be transformed. Your prolific truth-telling, generous assumptions, and decency towards other leads and inspires them to take ownership of their vision so they can follow the inspiration you set forth. 


Back to basics, Cap! With detail-oriented Virgo ruling your ninth house, you’ll want to understand how educational theories, methods, models, and approaches can help your vision. There’s helpful literature of strengths-based educational approaches and socio-cultural frameworks which can motivate you to climb the mountain with empowerment, integrity, intelligence, and hope.


Your social intelligence is everything, Aquarius! With relational Libra ruling your ninth house, you’ll want to understand the dialectics, push and pulls, and contradictions of the human experience. There’s no tougher but more illuminating arena than relationships to understand – freedom and connection, novelty and predictability – so study this in-between for wonderful results. 


Honor the shadow and the light, Pisces. With authentic Scorpio ruling your ninth house, you want to accept and demonstrate a vision which holds that both grief and love are interconnected and texture the entirety of the human experience. Avoid numbing one to maximize the other. Accept both – the shadow and light – for a vision which tells the deepest Truths to those who need to hear it. 

Colin Bedell


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